During the campaign season, one would like to believe that there are unwritten or unspoken rules that are understood by candidates running. When unfortunate or unexpected situations arise, like the loss of a loved one that is the family member of someone running for office, their opponent usually suspends their campaign, at least publicly, during the time of mourning.
Tennessee House District 76 Democratic candidate, Mark Maddox, lost his sister,
Janet Maddox, earlier this week. Here is her obituary, as listed, on the funeral home's website:
Services for Miss Janet Leigh Maddox, 51 of Dresden, will be held August 9, 2012 @ the Dresden Cumberland Presbyertian Church @ 2p.m. in Dresden, TN., with burial to follow in the Sunset Cemetery also in Dresden. Ms. Janet's visitation will be held August 8, 2012 @ Dresden Cumberland Presbyterian Church from 4 til 8 p.m. It will resume August 9, 2012 @ 10a.m. til funeral time. Janet is the daughter of Sam Maddox & Bonnie Jones. She is also survived by her Step-Father Kenneth Jones, two brothers, Mark(Kerri)Maddox of Dresden, TN.& Ricky(Bianca)Jones of Tulsa, OK. She was preceded in death by one brother Tommy Maddox. The Family has requested in lieu of flowers all donations maybe made to CDS Center in Martin, TN. or Dresden Cumberland Presbyterian Church in Dresden, TN.
First, and foremost, I would like to express my deepest sympathy to the Maddox family for your loss of beautiful Janet. I have heard such wonderful and inspiring stories about her, and I know that her impact on the lives of many will continue on. For those of you who do not know Janet, she was part of Community Developmental Services (
CDS) and the Maddox family are big advocates of this program, and what it does for members of their community. The Maddox family, as mentioned in the obituary, asked that donations be made to CDS or the
Dresden Cumberland Presbyterian Church in lieu of flowers.
Janet passed on Monday morning. At 10:23am, that same day, State Representative and current Republican candidate Andy Holt had the audacity to notify all members and staff of the Tennessee State Legislature via an email from his assistant Donna Anderson of the loss of Janet:
Rep. Andy Holt just learned this morning of the passing of Janet Maddox, sister of former Rep. Mark Maddox. We will give more information as it becomes available. Please remember the Maddox family during this time of sorrow.
While it was a nice thought, it apparently was only a thought, and not fully thought through. In my opinion, Andy had NO right whatsoever to take it upon himself to make this known to everyone. I know that if I was running for office, and an incident like this occurred just a few hours after the passing, I would not take kindly to my opponent for doing something he had no business in doing. Some people might feel that this isn't horrible or as tasteless as I find it to be, but it does get worse. I made the mention of an unspoken rule known by anyone running for office to temporarily suspend their own campaign, AT LEAST PUBLICLY, for a period of time for the candidate and their family to grieve peacefully. Unfortunately, Mr. Holt doesn't believe that these sort of unspoken rules apply to him. Not only did he take it upon himself to notify the legislature of Janet's passing, but he even had someone put an Andy Holt Conservative for Congress sign up within 100 feet of Mark's mother, Bonnie's, home. His mother had to pass this sign at least five different times this day while going back and forth making arrangements for Janet. Call it a coincidence or maybe plain ignorance....no matter what you call it, I would bet on it that this was pre-meditated by Andy, or his campaign staff, without a doubt. Not only is this tacky and tasteless, but it truly shows what kind of a character Andy Holt really has. Not to mention, there is nothing
conservative about crass ploys like this during a campaign. The more people I talk to about Andy Holt and how he consistently believes that nothing ever applies to him...kinda like he thinks that he is the supreme ruler of his land......in Andy Holt world that is....the more people are completely turned off by him. Andy, do you really have no shame? Next time you try to pull something like this i IMPLORE you to think, think, and think again. My mother always told me to think before I speak or act......it's unfortunate that no one taught you how to do the same thing.
Lastly, I would encourage those that are in as much shock as I am over the way Andy Holt has conducted himself this past week to counter his ignorance by either making a donation to CDS or the Dresden Cumberland Presbyterian Church in honor of Janet Maddox or to Mark's
campaign that he is running against Andy Holt. Let's respond in a positive manner to Mr. Holt's negative one.